The
journey, so called life isn’t easy or hard… it’s simply very simple and
therefore we love to complicate it. Most of us are not comfortable with the
word ‘Simple or Simplicity’. We attribute it to more boring, dull, lack of fire
or enthusiasm. So we more than often end up complicating stuff for ourselves
and love cribbing about it and categorize it as too difficult. Let’s say…. Consider
the time most of us take in selecting an ice-cream flavour? We ask for a tiny
spoonful of this, umm no; maybe that.. and then finally after some three four
tastings instead of zeroing on which one to order we are like.. oh baby.. I
like that but this one better. Which do I take honey? And if you the boyfriend
and say take both… trust me you are either dead or very lucky ;D . If you the girlfriend.. well let’s not even get
there. The problem is choosing but not just being satisfied with it. If you
were hanging at the edge of a cliff, would you be thinking should I let go and
fall upside down or downside up? At some moment, you’d just have to let go. You
can’t be stuck there forever irrespective of the consequences. The consequences
is what complicates it for us. Rather the assumption of consequences. The if’s
and but’s of English vocabulary.
The
language of the heart doesn’t come with these connectives. It just is. The
language of the heart is simple. Do what makes you happy. Period. At the end of
it as well as the beginning, all that matters is your own happiness. Unless you
happy, nothing around you can be happy. Your outside environment is a mere
reflection of how you feel on the inside. And lets be very clear… No one else
can make you happy. Your happiness is your own responsibility.