Tuesday, November 30, 2021

UNFOLDING






Triggers are way points which guide us to what requires work within ourselves. People, situations, mindsets, behaviours are all different aspects that we get triggered through. The most common reaction or approach is to avoid triggers. But avoidance only creates more layers to be peeled. 

Making self a priority, starts with commitment towards ones healing. The greater your commitment towards healing to know the true U; the more you can expect to be triggered. To heal we must first feel the very things we running from. Acknowledge them, sit with them & through them. The darkness within us is the very passage through which one emerges into the light. Both lie within & both have to be embraced. 

If you really feel called to know who u truly are, then allow your triggers to surface & lead the way in. It's only through self love, compassion, acceptance & grace that these very triggers will eventually reveal who u truly meant to BE. 





Sunday, November 14, 2021

Happiness is a state of BEing...


This post is by no means is to add to ur chaos. But with a hope to simplify it. It doesn’t have to do with any one emotion or instance. Just take it without the why's & absorb it.


Happiness is a state of BEing.
it’s a moment to moment bliss. 

Happiness which comes through the mind is always associated with something external & has all the rationals of if’s & but’s of conditioning. Nothing wrong with that as it’s still happiness and one should enjoy it fully till it lasts as anything that’s external is always temporary.

Happiness that’s felt in the heart within without any reason without any external factor is the happiness that emerges from ones soul. It doesn’t relate to the if’s & but’s of conditioning, fears, rational, logic. It just is. 

When u ask urself what truly is ur happiness. Close ur eyes and first ask ur mind. listen to the answer that comes through. Then ask ur heart & feel the feeling. 

Emotions r energy in motion. Everything that’s in motion is in a state of constant change. If ur happiness changes with motions of if’s & but’s then it’s temporary & conditional. When happiness is a fire lit within and doesn’t need to be stoked from anything or anyone on the outside that’s divine bliss, true love. 💫😊







Saturday, March 21, 2020

Pause


Pause

Whilst we are in social distancing mode & time seems to have actually slowed down it's pace.. which the very few who know me would affirm suits me just fine; I miss being out & about at will. The forced pause has given me a chance to review alot of things from a very different perspective. A water sign that of death & rebirth, I love exploring my emotions to the core; the dark as well as light aspects. Observing these emotions within especially the triggers, help me sit with myself, understand, learn, accept, acknowledge and heal those parts within me that requires attention to move forward. 


Last evening as I sat with myself under the twilight by the window, witnessing the clear black night take over amidst the chirping of the birds & a few sparkling diamonds; I closed my eyes to experience this moment fully. And in that very instant out of nowhere there was a vision. I saw myself lying in a hospital bed typing fervently my last thoughts on Evernote to put out there. And the most poignant thing that I remember in that whole thing was me writing... I wish I had taken more risks... Gone on more adventures. Got out more sooner of my comfort zone to explore and experience what is actually out there and where it takes me. I distinctly remember telling the docs I don't want to see anyone except for my son and making him promise to live his life, his dreams on his own terms & be love. I didnt feel sad or scared but just a sense of emptiness.. maybe I should have done things differently. Maybe I should have actually lived. 


The purpose of sharing this is simple. We all have our journey. Most of the time we forget about ourselves and survive a life others expect of us mostly in fear. We don't realise that our time in this physical body is limited. Our breaths are numbered. Ultimately death is the only certainty. With this global pause maybe it's time we re-evaluate our life's. Look at what really makes us happy. What inspires or motivates us. What lights us up each day to be who we truly are. Beautiful ones it's my appeal to all of you to take this break to really go within and connect with your soul. Explore your gifts to share with the world. Reignite the light you are and illuminate the path for those around by being love, joy & hope. To conclude, everything is energy. And as conscious beings we co-create our own reality, our world with our thoughts. So let's be mindful and create a New Earth that which radiates with love, peace & everything as one. Lets begin anew...

Thursday, January 9, 2020

Are you ready for an adventure?




How much do you know yourself? Besides your likes and dislikes; what are your deepest fears, desires. Are you aware of the internal self-talk, thoughts, behaviour patterns, what triggers you, how you react or respond, how does outside energy effect you, what kind of relationships do you attract, what is your idea of abundance, what gifts do you have to share, what’s your purpose in life, why you here, what is your super power etc.


Getting to know oneself is a lifelong process. A journey that begins with one word.. Curiosity.It is the most fulfilling relationship one can have. Because if you can’t be with yourself, how do you expect others to be with you. An adventure into the unknown; a calling..to discover aspects and gifts deep within, you weren’t even aware of. 

I began this journey of self-discovery more than a decade ago. Through this period of time, I went through many challenges, turmoil’s, difficulties be it physical, mental and emotional. There were many moments when I just gave up. But it was in those experiences of rock bottom that something beautiful deep within me always revealed itself and gave me the strength to keep going on. Gradually, a deep sense of acceptance and surrender is what I started feeling within. This glimpse of bliss was like an addiction that pushed me deep into knowing more about myself. The more hidden parts within that I uncovered, a new me kept emerging and the lighter I felt. Healing imprints of my past that were no longer required. Some that belonged to me, some that I had taken on from others unknowingly by giving my power away and some that came to me inherently from the ancestral lineage; un-conditioning the mind from what was to what is and truly tuning into my intuitions to live from my heart space… the journey so far has been truly enriching. An opportunity in every obstacle. Today when I look back and see how far I have walked, I always remind myself to take a moment to appreciate and express gratitude to myself for following the call of adventure, all the people I met on the way who helped and supported me in various ways and to the universe for choosing me to experience and live it.


Just like I rediscovered wholeness within myself through guidance and support from the universe and mentors who have walked the path before me at various stages of my journey, I would like to share it forward with you if you feel called.


Dancing lamaleads you on your adventure of metamorphosis; holding space for you whilst you experience your own journey, sharing teachings and techniques, spiritual guidance, healing sessions and workshops and guiding you so you too may find your passion, balance, inner harmony and true self and share it with others.

Are you ready for an adventure? 

Monday, February 18, 2019

The :)

U have a beautiful smile most say.. yes I do; I respond.. adding that it's a gift from the universe for signing up to learn the lessons I chose before being born.  The lessons that would guide others to believe in their own light when they learn that behind that beautiful smile are moments of intense pain that have endured sleepless times, wet pillows with swollen teary eyes, howling cries in the silent nights..; loneliness in crowded spaces, toxic pain of family ties, pangs of overwhelming helplessness, spirals of anxiety against fight of mind, lose of hope & darkness amidst beautiful sunshine.. but always ending with a feeble prayer to make things alright. Walk through it all and when u survive, there comes a moment when u cross a line. accepting, surrendering, trusting the divine... 
& then a small stem of courage rises up in the heart, filling u with light and a blissful pause. Devoid of any pain or pleasure, everything evokes a smile and that's the blessing of prayers & faith in the divine The :)

_ AM




When u remove the I from I am, u merge into the universe and then whatever flows through u is grace.. the universe working through u, wherein ur physical body is just a medium for the universe to let it's magic work through; into anything and anyone that requires exactly what is needed in a given moment.. love, light, compassion, healing, trigger to transform, and sometimes just the right words to steer the sails into the right direction. 

When u remove the I from I am, a deep sense of detachment arises from within.. a detachment that gives birth to a heartfull of selfless passion. Where the outcomes don't matter anymore as long as u keep doing what the universe is guiding u to. 

When u remove the I from I am, physical intimacy becomes divine coz u making love to the divine.. beyond the physical body, beyond pleasures for oneself but to just give. When every molecule melts into union into infinity everytime to be born a new again into a brighter smile, glowing aura, raised frequency and in alignment with the only essence the universe is made of.... LOVE.. the beginning & the end._ AM

Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Be You.




The journey, so called life isn’t easy or hard… it’s simply very simple and therefore we love to complicate it. Most of us are not comfortable with the word ‘Simple or Simplicity’. We attribute it to more boring, dull, lack of fire or enthusiasm. So we more than often end up complicating stuff for ourselves and love cribbing about it and categorize it as too difficult. Let’s say…. Consider the time most of us take in selecting an ice-cream flavour? We ask for a tiny spoonful of this, umm no; maybe that.. and then finally after some three four tastings instead of zeroing on which one to order we are like.. oh baby.. I like that but this one better. Which do I take honey? And if you the boyfriend and say take both… trust me you are either dead or very lucky ;D . If  you the girlfriend.. well let’s not even get there. The problem is choosing but not just being satisfied with it. If you were hanging at the edge of a cliff, would you be thinking should I let go and fall upside down or downside up? At some moment, you’d just have to let go. You can’t be stuck there forever irrespective of the consequences. The consequences is what complicates it for us. Rather the assumption of consequences. The if’s and but’s of English vocabulary.

The language of the heart doesn’t come with these connectives. It just is. The language of the heart is simple. Do what makes you happy. Period. At the end of it as well as the beginning, all that matters is your own happiness. Unless you happy, nothing around you can be happy. Your outside environment is a mere reflection of how you feel on the inside. And lets be very clear… No one else can make you happy. Your happiness is your own responsibility.

 It’s not dependent on anyone or anything. And if it is; then its bound to be momentary. Happiness is a state of being. It’s already inherent within you. You are born happy. It’s just that you have forgotten that birth right. Simplicity is that happiness. Simplicity isn’t boring…. It’s actually being truly authentic, true to oneself. It’s about standing in front of the mirror and asking oneself… does this resonate with my heart? That little voice within, which very faintly keeps knocking at the tiny door and most of us choose instead to turn up the radio volumne than to listen to it. It’s high time we paid heed to that little voice within us and tuned that radio to a different frequency. A frequency of the Universe called “LOVE”. It’s about time we all came together to broadcast the same message and dance to the same tune ‘ We are the World’. It’s about time you stood up for being who you truly are “ Just U ”.. and not someone else’s  perception of who you should be. If you extremely proud of all those masks you have collected over the years and very systematically stored in your inner closet; Think again…. Maybe Now is the time for a through self cleaning. So that it becomes much more Simpler to Simply Be YOU.